http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/Jezebel-Spirit-blog.html The Jezebel Spirit Blog keeps you up-to-date with all additions and changes to the deconstructingjezebel.com Web site. Subscribe here. en-us Jezebel Spirit Wed, 16 May 2012 19:10:03 GMT Wed, 16 May 2012 19:10:03 GMT deconstructingjezebel.com http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/occult-in-nature.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/occult-in-nature.html I got involved with a NPD and it was not nice, everything is always put on everyone else and they take no responsibility at all. When you confront them Wed, 16 May 2012 19:09:59 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/to-hell-and-back-and-still-here-in-hell.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/to-hell-and-back-and-still-here-in-hell.html 13 1/2 years. For the first half, I thought i was losing my mind. Then, I read about Narcissism. I wasted my breath trying to explain his actions to him. Wed, 09 May 2012 20:10:56 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/fd-a-psycho-.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/fd-a-psycho-.html A boyfriend suddenly contacted an auto immunue disorder and confined in a hospital. I was stunned and don't know how to react, just cried. He took Tue, 01 May 2012 17:44:30 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-little-sister-the-punisher.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-little-sister-the-punisher.html My sister, blank, is extremely intelligent, she has always been self-centered, manipulative, and hurtful. Until I read about Malignant Narcs nothing about Tue, 01 May 2012 17:42:24 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/falling-prey.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/falling-prey.html My brother imported this into the family. We never knew what it was but right from the word go with his relationship with this woman and her domineering Tue, 24 Apr 2012 19:51:16 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/suicide-as-the-final-payback.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/suicide-as-the-final-payback.html I've found this fascinating, reading the stories and examples that parallel mine with my parents. My parents, among other things, were fabulous at making Wed, 18 Apr 2012 19:44:58 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-npd-mother1.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-npd-mother1.html I can finally now see who she is and why she is the way that she is... its almost always about her opinion and she constantly controls everyone within Tue, 17 Apr 2012 16:28:39 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/exposed.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/exposed.html He was having cybersex at work. I found emails with dates &time &sent them to his boss. I'm still alive if that's what you call it when the lying cheating Tue, 17 Apr 2012 16:27:35 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/swinger-doctor-singer-song-writer.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/swinger-doctor-singer-song-writer.html Met this guy on match.com. small town doc-singer songwriter. Ha ha. Quickly he tried to get me into the lifestyle when I refused he said we'll start Mon, 09 Apr 2012 21:52:34 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/manipulating-for-her-agenda.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/manipulating-for-her-agenda.html I met a woman in church after recovering from a divorce. She seemed to be the most humble and loving person that I had ever met and I believed that Mon, 09 Apr 2012 21:50:55 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/no-criticism-allowed-but-there-is-something-that-does-not-disappoint.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/no-criticism-allowed-but-there-is-something-that-does-not-disappoint.html So I know now not to dare challenge this person or criticize. Whatever the case, I must listen to the lecture and not point out one word of hypocrisy Mon, 09 Apr 2012 21:46:22 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-matchmaker.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-matchmaker.html As suggested, the names and places here are changed... my name is not Lorelei, but let's just pretend it is for now, and the organization I work with is Mon, 09 Apr 2012 21:42:59 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-bank-card.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-bank-card.html I insulted his mechanic work on my car. Not intentionally, I just pointed out he should watch a video to make sure he was doing it right. A few days Mon, 09 Apr 2012 21:37:41 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/it-took-57-years.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/it-took-57-years.html My mother is 86 and a narcissist, very self absorbed and verbally abusive to me and about my middle daughter. I have been gaslighted, suffered narcissistic Mon, 09 Apr 2012 21:35:53 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/how-long-does-it-take-for-two-narcissistics-to-identify-teach-other-.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/how-long-does-it-take-for-two-narcissistics-to-identify-teach-other-.html I have a narcisisstic wife and I would like to believe my father has narcissistic tendencies but not as wierd as my wife's. My father disliked my wife Fri, 23 Mar 2012 18:52:07 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-boss.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-boss.html these people are truly not human . they are evil dressed in a human form. they are predators who like all predators wait to hunt and kill the weakest. Fri, 23 Mar 2012 18:50:53 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/sucked-in-by-a-vampire.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/sucked-in-by-a-vampire.html 10yrs staying leaving then i just kept coming back to what? the mental abuse, the verbal abuse, and days of physical abuse FROM A SELF CONFIDENT WOMAN Fri, 23 Mar 2012 18:49:46 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/up-again-down-again.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/up-again-down-again.html So pleasant,helpful, indignant about my attempts at detachment. The children don't come around to my perception, nor anyone else for that matter. I'm Fri, 23 Mar 2012 18:47:37 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-injury-while-giving-birth.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-injury-while-giving-birth.html I was in labor..suffering in pain quietly for hours. When i called out for help his response...if im going to get through this night youre going to have Mon, 12 Mar 2012 18:17:52 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/demon-possessed.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/demon-possessed.html I still lived at home and had ceased to fear my mother who happened to detest me on a regular basis. I had discovered, however, that something was not Sat, 25 Feb 2012 18:48:01 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-grandparent-hell.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-grandparent-hell.html I have just severed ties with my narcissistic mother. It only took 32 years and a custody battle over our 4 year old son to do so. Grandparent right's Fri, 17 Feb 2012 20:46:44 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/thanksgiving-day.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/thanksgiving-day.html My narc and I had a lengthy discussion over the telephone on the night before thanksgiving. We discussed (and he SEEMED to agree) that the silent treatment Mon, 13 Feb 2012 21:36:52 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-dared-to-challenge-my-neighbor.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-dared-to-challenge-my-neighbor.html My next door neighbor (a reserve deputy sheriff) had put up several security cameras and motion lights. One light would light up my driveway just as I Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:48:58 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/pictures-lol-just-pictures.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/pictures-lol-just-pictures.html Well I think honestly I have done pretty good so far.....it has been 3 years and I am just now finding out what he (my husband) is aaaaalllllll about. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:47:08 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-post.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-post.html My hubby posted a comment on myself being the best wife,mother,and soul mate and how he appreciates me.On his web page which i might add she's been blocked Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:45:10 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-way-i-dealt-with-it.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-way-i-dealt-with-it.html I had a narcissistic coworker who used all the tactics that most narcissists use. Upon research of this disorder, I found that the only way to deal Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:43:16 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-gave-you-everything.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-gave-you-everything.html Back in 2007 I had the greatest of plans. Moving in with my new boyfriend Hans down in the sunny south sounded like a dream. It took me until 2010 to realize Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:41:25 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/turning-it-around.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/turning-it-around.html I spent many years viewing myself as a victim of life. It was always someone else's fault because it certainly was not mine. I have been aware that Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:26:09 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-nightmare-in-shinning-armor.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-nightmare-in-shinning-armor.html When I met my nightmare in shinning armor. I was at a very low point in my life. I had just divorced my husband of 19 years, I was lost, scared and for Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:23:06 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/do-narcissists-marry-each-other-yes.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/do-narcissists-marry-each-other-yes.html Dad pushed, restrained and intimidated me when I wasn't answering mom's questions as quickly as he liked. Even after that, he becomes upset when I do Fri, 20 Jan 2012 21:35:53 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-journey-of-a-lifetime.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-journey-of-a-lifetime.html One day while exiting my apartment complex I was in withdraw from the opiates I take. I do not get high. I get normal. I was telling myself I even Sun, 15 Jan 2012 20:51:45 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/living-with-narcissism-was-my-normal.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/living-with-narcissism-was-my-normal.html It was always very puzzling to me why my mother hated me. I could never figure out what I done to invoke her rage but I did it on a constant basis. Sun, 15 Jan 2012 20:46:33 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/he-preyed-on-me-like-an-animal-hunts-the-wild.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/he-preyed-on-me-like-an-animal-hunts-the-wild.html I am a 43 year old divorced mother of three children. When I met him I was newly divorced, my Mom had just passed away & was financially struggling. Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:36:35 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/we-walked-on-egg-shells-for-year.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/we-walked-on-egg-shells-for-year.html Until I was 14 years old, my mother would make me stop playing, etc. so that I could walk in front of friends, family and sometimes even strangers so that Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:34:10 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissitic-soninlaw-and-i-had-words-and-i-have-lost-a-lot-from-it.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissitic-soninlaw-and-i-had-words-and-i-have-lost-a-lot-from-it.html My daughter in her twenties started work as a receptionist for this narcissistic man who was president of his company. His present wife in her 40's Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:31:26 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/when-does-it-end.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/when-does-it-end.html I was 19 he was 33. We met through his sister.He was an enigma.Arrogant and all knowing. He stood at the bar eyeing off the females.He was living back Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:28:58 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/20-years-and-i-just-found-out-what-i-am-fighting.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/20-years-and-i-just-found-out-what-i-am-fighting.html I guess it was pure desperation. Some will call it Divine Inspiration. But someone other than myself has lead me to this subject! I love my husband, Wed, 07 Dec 2011 17:15:52 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/oh-yes-i-have-been-that-light-socket-that-he-plugged-into.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/oh-yes-i-have-been-that-light-socket-that-he-plugged-into.html Everything, I mean everything is exactly this way in my relationship. I have been the hard worker, the moral center in the home. Let me stop on that front Wed, 07 Dec 2011 17:14:01 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/for-once-its-going-to-be-about-me.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/for-once-its-going-to-be-about-me.html I finally was going to get married after being in a committed relationship for almost 20 years My mother had her ideas about where it was going to be, Mon, 05 Dec 2011 19:13:14 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/a-long-but-valuable-story.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/a-long-but-valuable-story.html After 10 years of struggling with my plummeting self esteem an self respect, my (now) ex-husband Michael finally gave me the clue I needed to define Mon, 05 Dec 2011 19:11:44 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/a-highly-trained-policeman-with-npd.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/a-highly-trained-policeman-with-npd.html I'm attempting to end 2 years of hell with super cop. We were together for 6 months initially. Red flags started going off when he told me he loved me Wed, 30 Nov 2011 21:57:40 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/jezebel-sister.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/jezebel-sister.html I come from a very messed up home. My sister who has in my opinion a jezebel spirit. She is just as you described. She is a bully until you stand up Wed, 30 Nov 2011 21:55:50 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/boss-with-npd.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/boss-with-npd.html My boss has so very many characteristics of NPD and some of malignant narcissism. She shares privileged employee information with other workers to try Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:42:12 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-had-to-leave.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-had-to-leave.html Have just left a charity, where I was a volunteer, because of someone with NPD - I left to regain my sanity. I reckoned that if I never saw him again, Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:39:40 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/never-good-enough.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/never-good-enough.html At first I was the love of her life, the angels had brought me to her and I was 'perfect'. But of course I wasn't perfect in reality, and every little Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:16:58 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-simply-didnt-know.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-simply-didnt-know.html I was married for 27 years. Tried every way I knew to please my NC husband/pastor. He was charming, loving, attentive for our 5month courtship. Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:14:35 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-double-standards-rules-dont-apply-to-him.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-double-standards-rules-dont-apply-to-him.html I've been in a relationship with an N for over four years, prior to that 20 years with an ex-husband. I didn't know what it was until after I was already Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:12:17 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/elderly-narcissistic-mother-and-her-betrayal-of-my-trust.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/elderly-narcissistic-mother-and-her-betrayal-of-my-trust.html Over a couple of years time she lured me into buying her house, by paying off a large lien, and paying off my siblings the amount they would have inherited. Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:10:30 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/ahhhhhh.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/ahhhhhh.html I've been married 2nd time im 34 yrs old i have a child from a prev marriage. We are married 5.5 yrs It was fast hard love ( seemingly). Always fighting Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:09:21 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-soul-was-raped.html http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-soul-was-raped.html It took me five years to discover that he was a narc, in that period I tried to commit suicide, ended up in a psychiatric ward for 3 months, witnessed Tue, 01 Nov 2011 18:10:29 GMT