http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/Jezebel-Spirit-blog.html The Jezebel Spirit Blog keeps you up-to-date with all additions and changes to the deconstructingjezebel.com Web site. Subscribe here. en-us Jezebel Spirit Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:26:11 GMT Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:26:11 GMT deconstructingjezebel.com http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/turning-it-around.html I spent many years viewing myself as a victim of life. It was always someone else's fault because it certainly was not mine. I have been aware that Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:26:09 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-nightmare-in-shinning-armor.html When I met my nightmare in shinning armor. I was at a very low point in my life. I had just divorced my husband of 19 years, I was lost, scared and for Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:23:06 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/do-narcissists-marry-each-other-yes.html Dad pushed, restrained and intimidated me when I wasn't answering mom's questions as quickly as he liked. Even after that, he becomes upset when I do Fri, 20 Jan 2012 21:35:53 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-journey-of-a-lifetime.html One day while exiting my apartment complex I was in withdraw from the opiates I take. I do not get high. I get normal. I was telling myself I even Sun, 15 Jan 2012 20:51:45 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/living-with-narcissism-was-my-normal.html It was always very puzzling to me why my mother hated me. I could never figure out what I done to invoke her rage but I did it on a constant basis. Sun, 15 Jan 2012 20:46:33 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/he-preyed-on-me-like-an-animal-hunts-the-wild.html I am a 43 year old divorced mother of three children. When I met him I was newly divorced, my Mom had just passed away & was financially struggling. Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:36:35 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/we-walked-on-egg-shells-for-year.html Until I was 14 years old, my mother would make me stop playing, etc. so that I could walk in front of friends, family and sometimes even strangers so that Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:34:10 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissitic-soninlaw-and-i-had-words-and-i-have-lost-a-lot-from-it.html My daughter in her twenties started work as a receptionist for this narcissistic man who was president of his company. His present wife in her 40's Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:31:26 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/when-does-it-end.html I was 19 he was 33. We met through his sister.He was an enigma.Arrogant and all knowing. He stood at the bar eyeing off the females.He was living back Wed, 11 Jan 2012 15:28:58 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/20-years-and-i-just-found-out-what-i-am-fighting.html I guess it was pure desperation. Some will call it Divine Inspiration. But someone other than myself has lead me to this subject! I love my husband, Wed, 07 Dec 2011 17:15:52 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/oh-yes-i-have-been-that-light-socket-that-he-plugged-into.html Everything, I mean everything is exactly this way in my relationship. I have been the hard worker, the moral center in the home. Let me stop on that front Wed, 07 Dec 2011 17:14:01 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/for-once-its-going-to-be-about-me.html I finally was going to get married after being in a committed relationship for almost 20 years My mother had her ideas about where it was going to be, Mon, 05 Dec 2011 19:13:14 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/a-long-but-valuable-story.html After 10 years of struggling with my plummeting self esteem an self respect, my (now) ex-husband Michael finally gave me the clue I needed to define Mon, 05 Dec 2011 19:11:44 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/a-highly-trained-policeman-with-npd.html I'm attempting to end 2 years of hell with super cop. We were together for 6 months initially. Red flags started going off when he told me he loved me Wed, 30 Nov 2011 21:57:40 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/jezebel-sister.html I come from a very messed up home. My sister who has in my opinion a jezebel spirit. She is just as you described. She is a bully until you stand up Wed, 30 Nov 2011 21:55:50 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/boss-with-npd.html My boss has so very many characteristics of NPD and some of malignant narcissism. She shares privileged employee information with other workers to try Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:42:12 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-had-to-leave.html Have just left a charity, where I was a volunteer, because of someone with NPD - I left to regain my sanity. I reckoned that if I never saw him again, Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:39:40 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/never-good-enough.html At first I was the love of her life, the angels had brought me to her and I was 'perfect'. But of course I wasn't perfect in reality, and every little Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:16:58 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-simply-didnt-know.html I was married for 27 years. Tried every way I knew to please my NC husband/pastor. He was charming, loving, attentive for our 5month courtship. Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:14:35 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-double-standards-rules-dont-apply-to-him.html I've been in a relationship with an N for over four years, prior to that 20 years with an ex-husband. I didn't know what it was until after I was already Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:12:17 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/elderly-narcissistic-mother-and-her-betrayal-of-my-trust.html Over a couple of years time she lured me into buying her house, by paying off a large lien, and paying off my siblings the amount they would have inherited. Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:10:30 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/ahhhhhh.html I've been married 2nd time im 34 yrs old i have a child from a prev marriage. We are married 5.5 yrs It was fast hard love ( seemingly). Always fighting Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:09:21 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-soul-was-raped.html It took me five years to discover that he was a narc, in that period I tried to commit suicide, ended up in a psychiatric ward for 3 months, witnessed Tue, 01 Nov 2011 18:10:29 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/brainwashed-and-empty.html just as many say i thought i had met the man i was always wanting to meet, i even thanked god for bringing him into my life well that all lasted for about Wed, 05 Oct 2011 17:30:47 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/im-not-sure-if-this-is-npd-or-not.html but my father was violent and had narcissistic rages. The rages were never precipitated by alcohol or any other substance. He frequently blamed family Tue, 27 Sep 2011 17:18:17 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/litmus-test-for-a-good-relationship-and-one-with-a-toxic-npdthings-either-says.html What My NPD said daily or often: -It's not cheating, its just sex -It's all on your head -I never said that -Why do you always have to______? -I can't Tue, 27 Sep 2011 17:07:48 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-caught-him-before-it-was-too-late.html Four years ago, after attending a spiritual retreat for students of my high school, it came to my attention that a fellow student on the retreat wrote Tue, 27 Sep 2011 17:03:53 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/sense-and-sensibility-decorum-vs-the-n-facade.html I am certainly not against learning to control your feelings so they don't control you; nor am I anti-decorum. But when the primary person you've been Mon, 12 Sep 2011 14:10:15 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/evil-drunk-jezebel-ahab-parents-with-4-evil-siblings.html Both of my elderly folks are both malignant narcissistic alcoholics. They raised myself, two sons and two other daughters, in a very dysfunctional Thu, 01 Sep 2011 23:37:57 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-younger-halfsister-has-hated-me-her-entire-life.html The culmination of 54 years of malignant evil from my half-sister (learned from our dear malignant mother) was her accusation and convoluted explanation Sat, 27 Aug 2011 15:49:56 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/this-one-takes-the-cake-literally.html Not a huge deal and one of the most minor incidences I've ever encountered with this person, but one day I made a small cake for myself and this person Tue, 23 Aug 2011 16:06:35 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-battle-to-escape-my-narcisisstic-ex.html It has taken me years to finally realize what my ex really is. I always knew something wasn't right. I always described him as cold and uncaring, selfish Wed, 03 Aug 2011 14:57:38 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-online-friend.html I started talking to what I taught was a lovely Christian girl online a few years ago and we became (or so I thought) very close. In the beginning of Mon, 25 Jul 2011 22:51:07 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/understanding-my-psycho-sister.html I have undergone this abuse and witnessed it for years. I'm 56 and my sister is 52. I have seen my sister go off on her students in a classroom, on Fri, 22 Jul 2011 15:01:21 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-man-who-wasnt.html I met my ex narcissistic boyfriend online in 2009. After our first meeting, he quickly started to express how much he was into me. I was bombarded Mon, 18 Jul 2011 19:05:18 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-woman-runined-my-daughters-marriage.html My daughter married a lovely man she'd known for about a year. I met his mother prior to the wedding and had no 'red flags' pop up but later discovered Sun, 26 Jun 2011 00:37:46 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-evil-twin-sister.html My twin is a malignant narcissist. I really only understood she was truly evil a few short years ago. I am in my 40s. My 'relationship' with her has Fri, 17 Jun 2011 15:08:34 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/tried-to-be-friend-of-a-narc.html I became friends with a coworker who was very attractive ( people would reply to her as being halle berry, which she was absolutely glow with pleasure). Thu, 19 May 2011 20:08:40 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/soul-sucker-from-dana-point.html So it starts off with a lie about his age on the first date. Then find out he is not an active attorney like he said he was, that he lost his license Fri, 06 May 2011 18:40:27 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-devil-and-his-spawn.html • Locked me out house on several occasions • ****** incident after ****** – police called out – had been drinking and kicked me, swore at me and grabbed Fri, 06 May 2011 18:38:46 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/graduate-student-and-the-narcistic-faculty-members.html I had already been teaching English for 15 years and had worked in many environments while completing an MA in Political Science and another MA in Teaching Fri, 06 May 2011 18:29:38 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/anthropologyprofessorbadboy.html I was introduced by a friend to a newly divorced prof last year at a well-known private university in my native Nashville, TN. Hadn't dated in a long Fri, 06 May 2011 18:26:53 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-narcissistic-wife.html I know a man who just learned his wife is a narcissistic evil evil woman after years of marriage. He didn't know what it was. She spent his money in Fri, 06 May 2011 18:21:05 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-finger.html This was our second time around. I broke it off initially in a letter (he lived in another state and i only saw him 2x a month) due to his emotionally Sat, 16 Apr 2011 23:51:37 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/the-common-touch.html When I gave birth to my first child, my narcissistic parent said, I always knew you would be common. This particular comment caught me out of the blue Tue, 15 Mar 2011 18:41:08 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/my-npd-mother.html Here is the last email I received from my mother. She is referring to my sister, Janie. I am the daughter Jody, (I love you BUT...) I have never said Tue, 08 Mar 2011 17:07:19 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/i-am-safe-with-christ.html Last August the Lord called me and touched me. After a long period of repenting and desire for Him, He came. So wonderful, If you search Him with your Tue, 08 Mar 2011 16:50:01 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/narcissistic-fathers-are-more-common.html Studies show that narcissism is more common among men than women, and recent studies show that narcissistic men dislike females -- yet ALL the stories Wed, 16 Feb 2011 18:28:02 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/just-found-out-mil-is-a-narcissist.html Thank goodness I have found out, after 9 years, that my nasty mother-in-law has a narcissistic personality disorder. I just came across this term this Thu, 03 Feb 2011 21:02:04 GMT http://www.deconstructingjezebel.com/whats-next.html After 8 months of pure mental torture, self-created denial and eye-opening flashbacks of our 10 year marriage, I came out of the FOG with a final message Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:40:53 GMT