Narcissitic son-in-law and I had words and I have lost a lot from it
by Scarlett Jones
My daughter in her twenties started work as a receptionist for this narcissistic man who was president of his company.
His present wife in her 40's was his business partner. This man started emailing my daughter privately in the office and slowly started complaining how horrible his wife is and how she does nothing but spend his money.
Long story short he replaced his wife/business partner with my daughter.
My daughter felt he was the perfect man and had a worship at his alter attitude. He is a millionaire.
She used to be very close to her family. We noticed if she came for a visit he would always call into the house and pull her away from us. This never stopped. Overtime he started eroding away our relationship with our daughter.
He started a series of put downs and demeaning and disrespectful behavior towards me and her dad.
She started changing and turned her head away toward the rude behavior directed towards her parents and sister.
Finally there was a confrontation with me and this narcissistic son-in-law about his rude behavior towards me. I told him off. What I thought was a private conversation was not. I played into his hands.
He called me from his cell phone and camped the call into the speakers of his car. My daughter heard the exchange.
She calls me and tells me he never has done anything to me and told me to stay away. I played right into his hands.
My husband tried to privately convince this man to call me to work the issue out and he said I don't feel compelled. He never called me.
Now we have no relationship with our daughter. He has forced her to choose. She is now pregnant and we won't have a relationship with her or the baby.
I am heart broken but still am glad I no longer have to deal with this evil man. He gives me the creeps.
It has no occurred to me that he cares nothing about what he is doing to our daughter. He lacks no empathy at all for anyone and I hate that this type of foul individual entered our life.
We expect one day he will have another affair and toss our daughter aside like she is nothing.