The Narcissistic Wife
I know a man who just learned his wife is a narcissistic evil evil woman after years of marriage. He didn't know what it was.
She spent his money in more ways than you can imagine, hid her spending. She was jealous, controlling, insecure, needy and greedy just to name a few. She ruined his life.
My advice for people in a relationship is to get out and get out quickly before they control your mind.